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Why Do We Love Stories? The God in Our Stories

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By Adrianne Miles

“Tell me a story.” How many times have we heard that request? How many times have we made that request ourselves? Adults may not ask for a story as often as children, but adults often say things like, “How’d it go last night?” or “Tell me what happened.” We even turn mundane events — like waiting in line, driving down the road, cleaning the house or taking a test — into stories when we are talking with friends. People love stories.

Stories are a gift.

Why do we love stories so much? Paul Zak at Claremont Graduate University found that good stories cause our brains to produce oxytocin (Harvard Business Review, October 28, 2014). In other words, we like the way good stories make us feel!

Is it a coincidence that people like stories and that good stories cause our brains to produce a feel-good chemical? No, God’s creation is never coincidental. God gave us the gift of narrative as an ideal way for us to learn about Him and communicate His gospel to others. He made our brains to enjoy stories because He uses stories to communicate Himself to us. Not only do we find lots of narrative in the Old Testament, but we also see Jesus teaching through stories. Sometimes he provided direct instruction, but other times he used stories, or parables.

God made our brains to enjoy stories because He uses stories to communicate Himself to us.

Stories are a tool.

Jesus knew that stories would influence his listeners in ways that a simple answer would not. The story of the unforgiving servant in Matthew 18 is a great example of the educational power of stories. In response to Peter’s question about the required frequency of forgiving others, Jesus answers in two ways: with a simple number and with a story. The story conveys information that the audience may miss if only given the number.

For example, as a middle child growing up with an older sister and a younger brother, I was self-righteous enough to have kept track of all the times they sinned against me. Were it not for Jesus’s story, I would have likely stopped forgiving my siblings when each of them reached the magical number of 490 or 4,900. But the story stops me from keeping count of my siblings’ sins against me. The story humbles me before an all-forgiving God and makes me want to pay his forgiveness forward. Stories are effective, in part, because God made our brains produce feel-good chemicals when we engage in them. We listen. Often we even remember.

Not all of us are amazing storytellers, but we all have stories to tell.

Stories serve the mission.

Christians should use this knowledge about stories in our efforts to obey the last command that Jesus gave us before he ascended into heaven. Jesus commissioned his followers to make disciples and teach others about Him (Matthew 28:19-20). We can communicate this information in various ways, but we want to be mindful of the God-created power of stories to communicate the greatest story ever told.

Not all of us are amazing storytellers, but we all have stories to tell. We can use the stories around us in television, movies, novels or music to build bridges to the gospel. (Even shows like WandaVision and Stranger Things!) Stories of romance or rescue remind us of the all-loving sacrificial God who gave up everything for us. Stories of revenge help us reflect on our own sinfulness and the undeserved grace God extends to us. Even the stories of our own lives—the crazy thing that happened at work or the interactions observed at Wal-Mart—can be, and should be, used as conduits to share the gospel.

God is in all these stories. Our job is to see Him and share Him.

A version of this post originally published at Between the Times.

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Adrianne Miles

Adrianne Miles is an Assistant Professor of English and Linguistics at The College at Southeastern. Her research is in the intersection of literature and sociolinguistics. She lives in Wake Forest with her husband, Scott, and her two teenage boys. She is an active member of her church and community and has a passion to see all people experience the promise of John 10:10 -- the abundant life in Christ.

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